Thursday, May 17, 2012

     Marlo Thomas once said, "One of the things about equality is not just that you be treated equally to a man, but that you treat yourself equally to the way you treat a man." I believe this statement to be especially true because young women today have little to no respect for themselves. I find it devastating that my fellow young women also allow men to treat them with no respect. What's even more sad is the fact that these women will still do whatever they can to please the men who oppress them, yet they will complain that the respect is not reciprocated. Women, especially young women, need to respect themselves by demanding respect from the men in their lives.

     Since the beginning of time, women have always been seen as less than men in almost every aspect. Over the years, we have gained more respect in society, but we have never reached the level of respect men have always had. During the Women's Rights movement, women were motivated to overcome their male oppressors; however, today, women accept the disrespect that men & society bestow upon them. But I don't think it's men's faults-- I believe it is because women are unconcerned with themselves & are more worried about the happiness of men: getting dolled up for them, apologizing for every fault, making sure all their needs are met. Naturally, men will not object to these things, but they certainly don't appreciate them either. If women spent half as much time treating themselves well as they do men, they'd be a whole lot easier to respect.

     If men saw that women treated themselves equally to the way they treat them, they'd be sort of subconsciously brainwashed to treat them better. If women make it obvious that they treat themselves with respect, then men would see that & realize that their standards are high and treat them accordingly.

3 comments:

  1. Even through its incomplete i love it. You are so right my friend. These girls (and yes i refer to them as girls) have no type of respect for themselves. TO me being a woman is having respect and some sort of Independence,and class,Having some sort of knowledge, education. But now it has become evident that we are losing that and its truly a sad thing

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  2. Kristyn! I can't agree more. I also believe that now days Women do not state the standards of respect for themselves. Like you said there should be a balance,sadly now days that balance is diminished. Women have brought upon themselves the disrespect they receive now days. I believe in order to gain respect you are to bring it upon it yourself. If you don't respect yourself it is hard to ask or receive respect back. The respect you want to receive start from the respect you give yourself. Your Blog was great, I enjoyed reading it! Great Job!

    -Alejandra Gonzalez :)

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  3. Wow you really couldn't have worded it any better. Women do need to start respecting themselves, because how are others especially men suppose to treat them with equality when they regard themselves in a lesser way as well. We really need to stop allowing this madness to continue( and yes this is madness) it has been going on for to long . So I say to women start respecting yourselves and others will do the same.

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